Conflict resolution expands to seniors

By Nanci L. Valcke
Posted: 06/09/2009 01:22:31 PM PDT
Updated: 06/09/2009 01:22:32 PM PDT
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Sometimes people fight, then kiss or shake hands, and make up. But there are cases when quarrels escalate into what seems like unsolvable feuds.
Unfortunately, when a senior is involved, there's often a crime, says Deputy District Attorney Jason Peck, and the dispute ends up in a court where the outcome is determined. Rarely is either party satisfied.
Today, those in the aging population affected by family disputes don't know where to go for help, and when a crime is involved, are reluctant to bring charges against their adult child who often is the offender, he says.
Therefore, the Center for Human Development's Conflict Resolution program, which has served Contra Costa County for 25 years, is expanding its planning, training and networking to include more elder mediation.
"I think the need is overwhelming now," says Barbara Proctor, program director. "In the future, it's going to be higher."
Currently, the program relies on referrals.
"We refer to them," says Virginia George, supervisor of JFK Elder Law Clinic in Pleasant Hill, which opened in 2005 and provides legal assistance to those 60 and older who have been the victims of financial abuse.
"Often, their adult children take advantage. Mediation offers the elder to get something back without going into litigation."

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